I want you to realize that in this world, life is one big head game and once you learn to play the mother head game it’s no longer game. You can start living your life.
What stands between us and where we want to go is never what we think it is. It’s not the economy, it’s not the president, it’s not that somebody already dominated the health food industry or dominated Facebook advertising or dominated TV advertising or there’s no room left. It’s never that!
It’s always the story we tell ourselves on why we can’t achieve that. If you want to be successful you have to write down why you want to be successful. Because a lot of people might say I want to do it for money, I want to do it for passion.
And therefore that ‘why’ will determine the steps that you have to put in place to be successful. Because if you threw it for a passion or chair, that means you need to bring people on board to help you with that.
You can live a life that happens in an instance of reaction or you can take some time to figure out how you want to spend your time, who you want to be, who you want to be at work, who you want to be as a parent, who you want to be as a spouse, and on and on and on.
You know you can try to be that. And for that you just have to make adjustments to achieve your goal. And if you’re not really happy about what you add. Don’t worry! Just work this change is needed.
Well you don’t know where you’re going in life. Do not look for years down the line. Do not look two years, all year. You look next week, next month you keep your going short. And then when you accomplish those goals then you can start piling up little trophies or little moments to know that you are actually accomplishing something.
You are actually climbing the steps to success. Where people make the mistake in their goals is they put too many. Let’s say not so an impossible day but a goal that doesn’t allow them to qualify success quickly enough.
If you’re willing to pursue your dream then your goal was changed. And your level of sacrifice change. How you want the moments in your life to be lived is your choice. How do you want to spend that moment. Who do you want to be it is not the circumstances we confront that dictates the lives we experience.
When you want to do something in your life you don’t put options out there. You don’t put a B plan. You know you do this because this is what you want to do, you commit to it. This is what you want to do, do it. I have to take this real. I have to push myself out to suffer.
And I have to sacrifice in order to achieve that success. Otherwise, I’ll never be that guy that I wanted to be. You gain knowledge through suffering. And on the other hand, suffering is a world that very few very ever seen. If I view myself as the weakest person on the planet Earth.
My goal in life was to believe in my mind I’m the hardest man alive. And that’s why the whole thing can’t hurt me. That’s what it’s about. Whatever you think you are, you have to make that dream a reality. But that’s where the hard part is. Making that dream reality. That’s where the hard work come.
That’s where people know how do you keep crying every day. Mental toughness is getting up in the morning and doing the same thing again. They are gaining and they are for what I will take whatever. That goal is you. By doing that you become the best you know.
We’re all looking for passion. Passion is all around you. All the energy and fuel you need is right in yourself. It’s all there. You got a lot of stuff to do to overcome. I found drive and my own insecurities. But you can find Drive in your own doubt, fearing insecurities.
You become very unstoppable. I’ve learned that insecurities will never leave you like how fear does. They’re a natural part of the human condition. That they could be yammering away. And you go, ‘oh that’s just insecurity’.
If anyone out there is dealing with insecurities they want help. You know growing through the first step is getting rid of the shame that surrounds. It because the shame is what traps that insecurity.